The list for the big 3-0

Well it has come to my attention that my 30th birthday is around the corner, o.k. 6 months away, but still feels around the corner. Anyway I think that I should have a list of "Thinks to do in my 30th year of life". What will this list entail? I am not sure. One way to go is to put all the things on it that I want to do, including the frivolous like "buy myself the Gucci handbag that I have been eyeing". The other route is to go very Zen and grown up and list things like, "I will find contentment in the day to day", or "I will learn to silence my inner critic". What to do, what to do?

I think that I will just start a list and see where it takes me. Maybe the objective being that on my 30th birthday I divide the list into "Frivilous goals and objectives" and "life changing goals and objectives". Here is the first installement of the list:

1. I will make peace with my inner critic and come to understand and be aware of its exsistence.
2. I will wear grown up high heels on 75% of the days regardless of how painful or unhappy they make me. (Legs just look better in Heels and what an excuse to buy new shoes!)
3. I will stand up for myself in front of my father.

Its a good start, but I feel like it needs to be a bit more tangible with goals. How do you measure standing up for yourself in front of your father???

Anyway the struggle continues and so does the list!

Princess